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I can't take my own advice. I can give advices, but when it comes to my own problems I just stand there clueless. Maybe its the fact that when people tell me what they are having a problem on, I see outside of the box they are in. Point out the things they don't usually see and go on from there. When I deal with my own problems I usually just vent out and talk, talk until I can talk anymore. Maybe just having the comfort of someone being there just to hear and listen to what you have to say makes it a little bit better. I don't really look for any answers or any advices, I just want to get things off my chest.

I get into relationships and I just feel like everything is different. Yes, everyone says it is different because the girl isn't the same. Well to me yes that is true, but when I get in a relationship it feels like I start all over again as if it was my first girlfriend. I don't know what to do, I don't know how to act. I mean I would learn things from past relationships, but the feeling of being in a new relationship, I just don't know what to do. Like I need to know more about her, I need to learn more about me. As the days pass, I start regaining the thought of actually being a boyfriend and I need to do certain things in order for a relationship to work. Other than that I still don't know what to do with the advices I provide from the ones I need. Just a lot of thinking.